Memory Is More Than Remembering

Dementia can change memory.

But a person’s identity cannot be reduced to what they can recall today.

Every person receiving care arrives with a history.

Places they have lived. People they have loved. Work they have done. Food they recognise. Music they know. Languages they have spoken. Things they are proud of. Things they regret. Communities they belong to.

Knowing some of that history can fundamentally change the way we understand their present.

Behaviour or communication?

Imagine somebody repeatedly saying that they need to go home.

The statement could be treated as a problem to stop.

Or we could wonder what “home” means.

Safety?

A parent?

Children?

A particular place?

A period of life in which the person felt secure?

The words may be the beginning of a conversation rather than the end of one.

Families and communities hold knowledge too

Some of the richest information about a person’s life never appears in a care record.

It lives with partners, children, neighbours, friends and communities.

That knowledge matters.

Co-production isn’t only about asking people what they think about services.

It can also mean recognising that people and communities possess knowledge that professional systems do not.

Technology creates another possibility

We now have unprecedented tools for recording stories, voices, photographs, music and family histories.

That raises a useful question for social care.

Could we become better at preserving people’s stories before a crisis or diagnosis means somebody else has to reconstruct them?

Wonder

What would a care record look like if it began not with:

“What is wrong with this person?”

but:

“Who is this person?”

Take it into The Exchange

Ask somebody you know:

“What is one story about your life you would never want to disappear?”

Then bring the wider question to One Social Care:

How could social care become better at preserving people’s identity, history and stories?

 

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